Going down to the lane of memories, I remember the day when my wedding with Dheeraj was just fixed.I was all excited to know everything related to Dheeraj...All those things that mattered a lot to him, every person he was fond of..I wanted to know every bit of his life..his food..his life style..his fav's..his friends..his ex-girl friends :P (just kidding).All these people and things suddenly got high importance in my life..It felt like my life has started revolving around these facts..
I wanted to share his world with me..wait a minute...I was not trying to be a detective or so but I wanted to be a part of his life in real sense..I desired to feel that every moment that he used to feel..I was excited to create a space in my heart for that every person he was fond of .
And there came three names..Vaibhav, Yashu n Nitin.
When I heard these names at first, these were just his friend's name, actually his best friends. Honestly telling, I was a li'l bit dis-appointed also coz I was expecting name of atleast one girl in his gang but came all boys.
Anyways, now upon hearing these names I wanted to know these guys as these were new entries in my life.
After few days,all three of them were now known to me and I think that even I was not a new name in their lives.With full due respect and happiness I opened doors of my life for them.
I wanted to know Vaibhav,Yashu n Nitin now.
who they are? what do they do? when all of them became best friends..I was ready to cherish their friendship.
I think, I will have to repeat these names over n over again..so lemme me give them a name, a collective name..so lemme think..till then u take a break... :)
m back..I think since these guys enjoy a lot so I'll call them HAHU..funny or interesting..wat u say?
if nothing, den my suggestion doors via comment box are always open.. :P
So, HAHU guys were of top interest to me now.I wanted to share there views about me but didnt want them to share my views about them. :P..Its ok guys..digest it !!
Once, just yuhi I asked Dheeraj what do HAHU guys call me.
As dese guys were my hubby best friends so from old traditional values and system and not to forget hindi movies, I was expecting them to refer me as Bhabhi and myself to call them as Vaibhav bhaiya, Yashu bhaiya and Nitin bhaiya..It seemed to be funny and annoying to me but like a hindustani wife I had to expect myself to call HAHU guys like that. And as I was not sure about Dheeraj's thinkin then so I didnt force myself to look out for more options.
I think, I will have to repeat these names over n over again..so lemme me give them a name, a collective name..so lemme think..till then u take a break... :)
m back..I think since these guys enjoy a lot so I'll call them HAHU..funny or interesting..wat u say?
if nothing, den my suggestion doors via comment box are always open.. :P
So, HAHU guys were of top interest to me now.I wanted to share there views about me but didnt want them to share my views about them. :P..Its ok guys..digest it !!
Once, just yuhi I asked Dheeraj what do HAHU guys call me.
As dese guys were my hubby best friends so from old traditional values and system and not to forget hindi movies, I was expecting them to refer me as Bhabhi and myself to call them as Vaibhav bhaiya, Yashu bhaiya and Nitin bhaiya..It seemed to be funny and annoying to me but like a hindustani wife I had to expect myself to call HAHU guys like that. And as I was not sure about Dheeraj's thinkin then so I didnt force myself to look out for more options.
But there came a surprise for me and an example of modern n free thinking of Dheeraj.He said" these guys will call me Ruchi only". I was surprised and happy to know this but still I said "Why? Ask them to call me bhabhi and I'll refer them as bhaiyas as it happens in our families". But he denied and said"Let them call you Ruchi only.There is no problem in calling you by name and you also call them by their names only. Forget this bahiya and all concept." I agreed.
and there somewhere laid a path for my friendship with HAHU guys: Vaibhav,Yashu and Nitin.
When I got to know profile of these guys I was impressed.They all were well qualified Software Engineers working in well-known companies.
Vaibhav is a graduate from DCE and so Yashu. Nitin is a B.Tech from IP University.
An important point that I should not forget to mention here specially for my female frnz..all of them are SINGLE and very well ready to MINGLE... :)
Sorry HAHU guys but could not stop myself to mention this thing here. U all know m very concern about u all to get mingled so that I could have a female companion in our group and most important Dheeraj and me can plan our goa trip with u n ur mates.
And girls, I bet the girl who would become their mate would be fortunate enough to ask another thing in their lives. Trust me !!
ok now..coming back to Yashu, Vaibhav and Nitin.After knowing them a bit as of now, I never expected myself to be a good friend of them and be a part of their happy n wonderful group.
and there somewhere laid a path for my friendship with HAHU guys: Vaibhav,Yashu and Nitin.
When I got to know profile of these guys I was impressed.They all were well qualified Software Engineers working in well-known companies.
Vaibhav is a graduate from DCE and so Yashu. Nitin is a B.Tech from IP University.
An important point that I should not forget to mention here specially for my female frnz..all of them are SINGLE and very well ready to MINGLE... :)
Sorry HAHU guys but could not stop myself to mention this thing here. U all know m very concern about u all to get mingled so that I could have a female companion in our group and most important Dheeraj and me can plan our goa trip with u n ur mates.
And girls, I bet the girl who would become their mate would be fortunate enough to ask another thing in their lives. Trust me !!
ok now..coming back to Yashu, Vaibhav and Nitin.After knowing them a bit as of now, I never expected myself to be a good friend of them and be a part of their happy n wonderful group.
I was happy to see that these guys had accepted me so well in their group.
I remember when I first met them at Saffron Court(hot meeting point of HUHA guys), Nitin said "I am very happy to have a new member in our group and I hope our group would enlarge to five members and not size down to 3". His these few words had a deeper meaning and there I didnt know what to say coz I was not sure whether I would be able to keep myself up to their expectations or not.But, from heart I desired to make up myself to be one of them.
And since that day, after 7 months I am proud to say that I have been able to keep myself up to their expectations.
Now we are a group of 5 rather than 4.
I never expected myself to say this but its true, I am fortunate enough to get Vaibhav,Nitin and Yashu as friends in my life.
And nevertheless, again I am Very very thankful to Dheeraj to give such a nice bunch of friends.
In the End I would say, CHEERS to our FRIENDSHIP!!!
Now we are a group of 5 rather than 4.
I never expected myself to say this but its true, I am fortunate enough to get Vaibhav,Nitin and Yashu as friends in my life.
And nevertheless, again I am Very very thankful to Dheeraj to give such a nice bunch of friends.
In the End I would say, CHEERS to our FRIENDSHIP!!!
