Beautifulness is love..!!

Often friends end up asking " What is love?" "How does it feel to be in love?" and I could just say-
 love is beautiful!!
Its a beautiful feeling to be in love. Butterflies in stomach, endless in thoughts, nothing on lips...is love.
Unsaid often becomes said. Words are replaced by silent but loud expressions.

 love is eternal!! love is pure!!

Love brings out the best from oneself.

Love is a strongest form of energy. Its a channel to meet our innerself. Love takes us to the heights.

Love nourishes!! Love flourishes!!

Be in love, be yourself!! :)

When kids get cranky

It was a wonderful day, after some snacky masti we decided to have bath. Post-bath, as a ritual it was the time for some health tonics. Lysha enjoys them. Perhaps it is the only thing that she loves in her routine and after the intake of adequate amount, I have to convince her that  we will have them tomorrow also. This time she got stuck on one of them and was just not agreeing to the deal we have. It was a tough moment. She was shouting, throwing away the things and was unmanageable.
At this point of time, an impatient adult within me tried to raise voice to get control over a cranky child. But at the same time a patient parent took her into the arms and sang our favorite song. A tight hug, feeling of being listened, coziness was just needed to calm her down and in a next minute she was relaxed and composed.

Now a question, why am I narrating this story?
Answer, perhaps in our day to day struggle we forget that a child is a purest and most sensitive form of life. They need extra warmth, extra love, extra patience from parents to blossom. We must remember that a child's personality is nothing but the reflection of love and care that he/she gets. The more patiently a child is being taken care of, the more sensitive and sensible nurtured personality he/she will be.

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Parents love is the sheer form of love. Nothing could replace it, we must remember!!

A step towards growth

Growth!! Progress!! Development!!

Correct…Makes sense!

But when to aspire “more”? When to look out for something “more”? How to identify “more”? What steps to be followed to achieve “more”?

I may not know all but through this communiqué I am trying to carve a bit of “more”.

There comes a moment engulfed with thoughts and a fight  

 to come out of the prevailing circumstance. A flash of time 

pre-occupied with questions and looking for the justification.

An effective effort tricky enough to push this moment back is a step towards growth. It has been correctly said “A journey of thousand miles start with a single step”. This single step takes the puzzled mind far away towards ‘Growth, progress, development’.

A storm in the mind and thoughts around define “more”.

“More” powerful enough to get the peace of mind back. A strong indication to calm down the storm within.

And then starts the journey towards success to progress..!! 

And then it all changed…!!

Yes, it all changed and I didn’t even realize it. Almost at the midnight of November 16, 2013 she landed in my life very quietly for changing my world. It was the moment for which I was waiting for loong. Lysha was born..!!!

She is just a baby in my lap whom I have given birth, my brain knew it very well until one day I refused to eat until Lysha would have her dinner (milk was it at that time). At that moment I realized she is not just a baby but my daughter, my precious gem, for whom not sure how many times I have sobbed.

Now, she is one and half year old young mature naughty intelligent girl who will just not do anything without her mom. When she will want to look herself in mirror she would call ‘mummy aaja aaja na’, she would grab my pair of shoes and wear one while keeping the other one saved for me, she would sleep with socks in her feet coz the other day she saw me wearing them.

She is my bright image…!!! And I am so proud of her…!!  ;)

Though she has adopted her sense of intelligence and charming looks from her father but her zeal to be naughty at her best is something she purely owns. J

I have always believed, first child is a reflection of learning and experience of parents. Whatever, parents had experienced and learnt till this point of time they try to inculcate all that as values in their child and same I envision for Lysha.

I want Lysha to be grow rich in self-confidence, thorough in sensing people, strong enough to stand for right values, indomitable for her decisions and lastly respect her parents.

With every value that I would like to inculcate in her I would be at a trial. I hope I succeeds at every step and Lysha turns her out to be a responsible and charming lady. Amen..!!