August 9, 2015

When kids get cranky

It was a wonderful day, after some snacky masti we decided to have bath. Post-bath, as a ritual it was the time for some health tonics. Lysha enjoys them. Perhaps it is the only thing that she loves in her routine and after the intake of adequate amount, I have to convince her that  we will have them tomorrow also. This time she got stuck on one of them and was just not agreeing to the deal we have. It was a tough moment. She was shouting, throwing away the things and was unmanageable.
At this point of time, an impatient adult within me tried to raise voice to get control over a cranky child. But at the same time a patient parent took her into the arms and sang our favorite song. A tight hug, feeling of being listened, coziness was just needed to calm her down and in a next minute she was relaxed and composed.
Now a question, why am I narrating this story?
Answer, perhaps in our day to day struggle we forget that a child is a purest and most sensitive form of life. They need extra warmth, extra love, extra patience from parents to blossom. We must remember that a child's personality is nothing but the reflection of love and care that he/she gets. The more patiently a child is being taken care of, the more sensitive and sensible nurtured personality he/she will be.
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Parents love is the sheer form of love. Nothing could replace it, we must remember!!

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